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40% of guests are first time visitors. so why not be one of them?

The RolePlay Swingers Club experience is low pressure, and non-clickish.  

Our members are an eclectic group of fun-loving couples and single females.

The majority of our members are successful, “20-40 something”, professionals.

The RP crowd is “beautiful”, stylish, and friendly. RP Management and Staff

will introduce new members to RP “regulars”, who are very happy to in turn

introduce their friends. Our Hostess will also give a Tour of the club.

 

What To Expect...

Swinging, is becoming a mainstream activity and has become something of a

social-sexual phenomenon in recent years. People from all walks of life are

attracted to the “’style”, with the highest influx being 30-40 something, married,

middle to upper class, professionals who are hitting the club scene for the first

time.  In a society that promotes sexuality, secure couples and singles have been

able to develop a sense of sexual maturity which has led to a point where

exploration has become a popular trend.


    Most people have the wrong idea of what a swing club is. Many think that it’s

just one big orgy and you check your clothes at the door and then dive right in,

doing anything you want with whomever you like.

At The RolePlay Swingers Club this is COMPLETELY not the case!

More than anything else, RolePlay is a social club where you’ll meet some of the

nicest people. In some cases, you’ll form bonds that will last a lifetime.

 


Here’s how it works...


The best way to approach the evening is with only one single expectation, and

that is to have a fun time together with your partner.  For your first visit to RolePlay,

plan on having a few drinks and enjoying the sexually charged dance floor. This

way you’ll both be completely comfortable with no expectations. 


 

Then one (or a few) of the following things will definitely happen . . .


A..... At the end of the night of drinking and dancing in this sexually charged

environment, you will both will go home and have mind-blowing sex!  recharging

your sex life and supercharging your relationship.


B......  While on the dance floor, the attractive couple dancing beside you is dirty

dancing and her body keeps rubbing against yours on the dance floor. You

respond by touching and caressing them back. Then they   disappear into the

crowd and you enjoy the excitement of this sexy anonymous encounter.


C.....  You both want to see more, so you venture up to the second floor and find a

room that is in midst of a very sexy orgy. You don’t go in , but instead you observe

from the doorway, close enough to easily view all the exciting activities, yet far

enough away to accommodate your comfort zone. You feel like you’re part of the

activities though not needing to participate in them. It’s like you’re sitting in an

adult theater watching the most erotic orgy you’ve ever seen, except this time it

isn’t a movie... The action is real and live!


D..... You are both so turned on by the evening that you retreat upstair and find a

comfy lounge chair in one of the play rooms,  you enjoy great sex together and

enjoy being a exhobitionist. All while another couple or threesome, foursome or

more-some is doing the same on the other side of the room.  And their sexy

sounds only adds to  your excitement.


E..... You see the couple that was dancing beside you on the dance floor and they

are playing in one of the rooms. There is room next to them so you spread your

sheet out  beside them and lay down. You begin kissing and playing with your

mate, then after a little while the pretty girl of the couple beside you gently touches

your arm to extend an invitation to touch them back. You respond to her touch not

really knowing yet how much touching or caressing will take place, but knowing

full well that either couple can say no at any time and set any limits they desire.

Maybe the ladies only touch each other while the men each pleasure their own

wives. Maybe the men are massaging both the ladies’ entire bodies or maybe the

ladies are stroking the other man while having sex with her husband. Who knows

what might happen this special magical night, it’s all up to you and those involved

with you. Maybe she might enjoy giving you oral while her husband services her

from behind, you’ll be sure to see plenty of that going on here. And maybe you’ll

engage in full partner sharing with a complete exchange of partners ... 


This is your night, you set your own limits.

 


Here are some Tips for anyone visiting RolePlay

You and your partner should have a clear comunication about...

what is OK and what is NOT OK.   

What am I comfortable with?  And What are you comfortable with?


Define signals with your partner. How do we signal that we are

uncomfortable in a situation?

After each experience talk about everything that happened,

were you excited?  Challenged?  Happy?  Was it a pleasurable experience?

Were there any "awkward" moments?.

Also, be aware that your play partners have their own rules,

and if you run into one that seems odd to you - remember it makes sense to them.

Do not try to convince them that they should change their rule to suit you. 


 

 

 

Swingers lifestyle voyeurism. Peeking through the door at a couple.

Voyeurism

VOYEURISM is the sexual interest of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing or sexual activity. The aspect of spying is central to voyeurism. Observing is a very important part of the lifestyle, because without the voyeur, there would be no room for the exhibitionist...

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Exhibitionism

EXHIBITIONISM is a behavior involving the exposure of the body to another person, usually at least partially in a sexually inspired behavior, to attract the attention of another in an open display of bare body parts. Exhibitionists are performers, and they love a good audience. The relationship between the performer and the audience is a key aspect to the overall experience.

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Foreplay

FOREPLAY involves different acts such as kissing, touching, embracing, talking, and teasing. Foreplay may include methods of satisfaction, such as erotic sexual denial and sexual stimulation of all kinds. Manual or oral stimulation of erogenous zones are considered foreplay. Sexual role playing, fetish activities, and BDSM can also be considered foreplay. They may also accompany intercourse and not just precede it. Voyeurism is also a form of foreplay.

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Sexual Roleplay

SEXUAL ROLEPLAY is an erotic form of roleplay: it is a sexual behavior where two or more people act out roles in a sexual fantasy. How seriously this is taken depends on the people involved, and the scenario may be anywhere from simple and makeshift to detailed and elaborate, complete with costumes and a script. Nearly any role could become the base material for an erotic experience, and there is no limit to what objects an individual could consider sexual. Many of the most common sexual roleplays involve a power differential and form part of the dominance and submission aspect of BDSM. Roles can be general designations of power position, or very specific, detailed fantasies. The controlling player is often called the top or dominant, while the controlled individual is called the bottom or submissive.

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Swinging

SWINGING, sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle, is "non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity that can be experienced as a couple."

Swinging activities may include, but are not limited to:

  • EXHIBITIONISM: Having sex with a partner while being watched.
  • VOYEURISM: Watching others have sex.
  • SOFT SWINGING or soft swap: Including a third or fourth person into a sexual activty without vaginal penetration. Kissing, stroking, or having oral sex are all part of soft swinging. There are a large number of women who join the lifestyle to include another woman for their pleasure, in a bisexual experience. Soft swap may be as a threesome, group sex, or the literal swapping of partners. Soft swinging can add spice to a couple's relationship and allowing them to have fun without the risk of jealously. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a good way to explore a swinger's life style.
  • FULL SWAP: having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. Although this is the commonly understood definition of swinging, it is not the most common style of swinging.
  • GROUP SEX: An all-inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity.